There's No Need to Feel "Unlucky in Love"

I think most, if not all, of us have felt "unlucky in love" at some point in our lives.

But, in reality, luck involves planning and the ability to take advantage of opportunities when they arise… In short, luck is something we create!

This being the case, there's no need to feel unlucky in love as long as you're willing to do the planning and work necessary to create your own luck.

Whether you've never really "dated" in the past or are returning to "the dating scene" after a long hiatus, finding the right person has much more to do with knowing yourself — your wants, needs, and goals — than with luck, timing, or any other external factors.

It may come as a surprise, but dating with confidence doesn't always come from our looks, our body, or what we're wearing. The most attractive men and women often have limited relationship skills and struggle with low-self worth.

In order to date with confidence, you must, first and foremost, believe in yourself. Dating success comes from within ourselves, not from a false impression that others see.

Learning to Create Relationship Success

Finding the right partner is one of the most important things in life. Why leave it up to chance, fate, or a blind date?

You wouldn't choose a job, a school, or a house without being clear about your desires and doing a lot of research. Why not give yourself the same advantage when choosing the person you want to share your life with?

You can draw toward you the partner and the relationship you desire by clarifying what's important to you and making the best choices possible.

In the safe, supportive, and confidential environment of my private therapy practice, I can help you:

  • Look at yourself honestly
  • Evaluate your strengths and weakness without being judgmental
  • Determine your prospective partner's "must-haves" for relationship success
  • Change what you'd like to change about yourself
  • Focus on the relationship requirements necessary for you to live the most fulfilling life possible

Don't waste time repeating past mistakes or by beginning one relationship after another just for the sake of being in a relationship.

Learning to be comfortable with yourself goes a long way to being more comfortable with others, including those of the opposite sex. And knowing what you want and need will allow you to not only be more comfortable but recognize him when you see him.

If you're interested in learning more about how I can help you determine who the right partner is and how to find them, please feel free to contact me at 408-317-8440 or at I look forward to helping you create the relationship you've been seeking!


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